My friend Mary Lou died.
I would like to write about her here, about what a good friend she was, about all the things she taught me, about what a generous, beautiful, life affirming energy she was in the world . . . I’ve tried to write about those things, but so far, I haven’t been able to do it.
For now, let me just say that I miss her very much.
In looking for some way to adjust to life without Mary Lou, it occurred to me to ask her husband, Tom, about her spinning wheel. I can see her sitting at it, spinning and laughing and listening, barefoot, happy, at ease as only she could be with the wheel and the world. Seriously, she was so good at living.
Tom was kind enough to let me bring Mary Lou’s wheel home with me.
It’s here with me now, and it does help.
I am spinning on it for this year’s Tour de Fleece which started yesterday. My plan is to spin this glorious BFL top that for some reason makes me think of Mary Lou.
I want to use the 2-ply yarn to knit a pair of socks. I think she would like that.
She was extraordinary. I am so thankful that our lives intersected for awhile.
I’m so sorry for your loss, but since you have her wheel, you will feel her presence when you use it.
Thank you so much, Deborah. I think you’re right. 🙂
Melinda, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your dear friend sounds like a beautiful soul, and I’m touched to read your words about her here. Truly! Using her wheel for TDF this year is such a beautiful way to remember her. Hugs and condolences. ❤
Thank you, Shirley. I appreciate your reading and commenting more than I can say. Someday, I’m going to get back to Chicago, and meeting you in real life will be at the top of my to-do list. 🙂
That sounds lovely, Melinda!
She would love it, Melinda. And the BFL top is perfect, that in-your-face red/orange. That’s so Mary Lou. I’m sure she is up there, the tiny yellow hang glider spot in the sky, spiraling around and smiling down on you and your porch. <3
I love you, caribayb. ❤️
Melinda, I am so sorry for your loss of a dear friend. What a wonderful idea to use her wheel. Hugs!
Thank you, Marilyn!
I’m very sorry for your loss. But it’s such a beautiful idea to celebrate her life and memory by spinning. And the colours of the fleece are gorgeous!
Thanks so much, Kat!
Thank you, Robin. 🙂
I’m so sorry for your loss, Melinda. The loss of a dear friend is never easy. May you think of her peeking over your shoulder as you spin, encouraging you to make beautiful things while remembering her fondly.
What a wonderful thought, Paula! 🙂
Aw I’m sorry you lost such a good friend. How lovely that you can remember her every time you use the spinning wheel, so she will always be with you 🙂
So sorry for your loss! I’m sorry to be so late with my condolences–a summer away from regular wifi is my only excuse. You will make some beautiful yarns with this wheel and it will be a true tribute to your friend. Thinking of you!